[The following is an email received from a reader. If you like this you can search Instagram for more B&D fan mail – use the hashtag #BadGuyFanMail to see more.]
Subject: Thank you, Victor!
Message: I came across your website last year around Thanksgiving. This was the most shameful, depraved and emasculated year for me. I was jumping from job to job makin shit cash with a baby coming, so I was living with a pregnant girlfriend in a 1 bedroom apartment, who I really didn’t want to be with at all, society convinced me to stay with the mother. I never made her work while she was pregnant, she never paid a bill and after my daughter was born it all changed and then next thing I knew she was fucking other guys.
I had became a dad to a beautiful daughter who I would die for, I would not trade her for anything. I had also gained a good amount of weight, about 60-70lbs exactly the past year, I had always lifted weights but stopped when I had to be a dad. I ate shit food, all the time. I constantly watched porn and spilled my seed at least two or three times a day, so much I didn’t fuck my girlfriend, or even desire to cheat on her. I kept quitting jobs, and ended up borrowing money from Mommy. No wonder she left me right? At this time it was about November 2014, I came across How To Be A Go Getter, which woke me up and I changed my direction though I didn’t actually look at Bold and Determined at this point.
After we fell apart, my baby mama and my daughter moved four hours away, which drove me even down worse, since I got a good job and was making things right, but it was t enough, I had become even more depressed than ever.
But I remembered Go Getter, and I returned.
I read up on how steak and eggs is the strongmans meal, how to make money online FOR REAL, how to get fucking rich, how you can be jacked and make girls’ panties wet, how America has become the most feminized country in the world and how we as men need to reclaim our masculinity….
The list goes on and on, it’s like that scene in Pain and Gain when Mark Wahlberg is at that motivational speech, and he hears Ken Jeong and says “this guy gets me”.
Honestly, Victor I don’t think I’d be who I have transmuted into if not for your wisdom, and your brutal honesty. I am making good money with my own landscaping business, I have a great relationship with my daughter, I am down almost 50 pounds, went from 300 lbs to 260 in about six weeks with steak and eggs, and I’m still dropping, I started lifting weights everyday, rest days are for potential quitters, I am trying to find a good girl, haven’t jerked off, or watched porn going on three weeks, it hurts, but it’s worth it, and I have more confidence and energy. I feel like a winner by following your steps, bruh. Please continue to write and blog and speak your pieces.
I am a die hard Bold and Determined Lion!
I thank you, and hope to actually meet you one day. Tommy